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Mr. and Mrs. Kink Host The NCSF Fundraising Raffle

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I am overwhelmed with emotion and at a loss for words at the outpouring of support that people in our community have shown our family by donating prizes for the raffle, buying tickets, cross posting to spread the word, and the kind words that have gotten us through a very difficult time. We are proud to say that our personal need has been met and good (us, the sinners) triumphs over evil (them, the morally superior). To feed off of Graydancer’s post, we have proven that “a community proving that a community of pervs cares more about her education than an administration full of assholes.”

This means that instead of being my personal mission to fight for my daughter, I am on a bigger mission for the greater cause. I recognize that I am not the only person going through this battle. In fact, it’s a series of small battles that are all a part of a greater war on personal freedom, often with children in the crossfire.

This shouldn’t happen, but if you’re living an alternative lifestyle, it very well could happen to you. The only way to combat it is to put on the armor, link up arm-in-arm, and take them on as a commUNITY. That is exactly what I’ve seen in the last few days and I think we can do more!

The raffle continues, as it is scheduled to end on Sunday (8/17/08) at 10pm, but from this point forward, all proceeds will be going to the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom as a contribution from the community that has stood together and won this battle. This is our way of supporting the war that has been waged in the land of the free against personal and sexual freedom. At the end of the year, the refunded monies will also be donated on behalf of this community.

The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom is a national organization committed to creating a political, legal, and social environment in the United States that advances equal rights of consenting adults who practice forms of alternative sexual expression. NCSF is primarily focused on the rights of consenting adults in the SM-leather-fetish, swing, and polyamory communities, who often face discrimination because of their sexual expression.

My deepest gratitude to those who have supported and continue to support this cause. I have never felt such a sense of community in my entire life. So here is the current prize list for the new official National Coalition for Sexual Freedom raffle. Check back, as we seem to be adding prizes daily.

From Lochai there are three 5×7 museum signed prints from his recent exhibit at the World Erotic Art Museum, two of them are not only museum signed prints, but are also very limited editions.

Alley Bound and Curves are a limited edition of 10 museum signed prints. If you win, you will receive either 6/10 or 7/10. Beach Bound is Lochai’s iconic World’s Most Erotic Photograph winning piece, and is a signed museum print. (Sold normally at $75/print)

Ellie Lumpesse has donated three books:

The Straight Girl’s Guide to Sleeping With Chicks by Jen Sincero
Aqua Erotica by Mary Anne Mohanraj
The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio by Violet Blue

Ellie is also offering:

a 30-minute private phone session (that can include her amazingly sexy man) if you win.

Sam donated:

custom, hand made jewelry (a necklace and earring set) to a runner up. “It’s not a kinky prize, but pretty,” she said. Pretty indeed! Take a look: http://quem98.livejournal.com/306470.html

Thursday and D donated:

a signed 8×10 print of any one of their photographs
a copy of the book, The Mammoth Book of Illustrated Erotic Women.

And Thursday has also offered:

one of her sexy (orgasmic) voicemails to a lucky winner. Let me tell you, that is one hot prize.

The writer of Between My Sheets offered:

A brand new, still in the package, never been used Silver Bullet Vibe.

And just now I heard from my Naughty Secretary who offered:

Her services as a graphic designer. There are two separate prizes – each being two hours of graphic design time (normally charged at $120/hr). In addition to participating in this raffle, she is doing her own auction to raise money. She is sponsoring a silent auction of one of her paintings on her web page.

Edward, from Exjinn.net, the company that hosts all of our blogs and provides us without outstanding support and service, has offered:

A 50 gig hosting plan from Exjinn.net with 1-year of service.

Essin’ Em:

just donated a copy of the book, Wetter, with her story signed personally for you. As if that weren’t generous enough, she has also offered an 8×10 print!

Sabrina Fox – does the name ring a bell?

Sabrina Fox, as in the redhead hot as fuck bondage and fetish model, Sabrina Fox, was chatting with me today and mentioned that she has a few pairs of latex panties that she recently wore for a photoshoot that would offer as prizes. Latex panties worn by Sabrina Fox, anyone? Oh wait until I tell W about this when she is older.

Jeff Mach commented: (THANK YOU, JEFF!) [This is one of those prizes that I would like to know if you would like to be entered to win. If you're not in the area and can't use the tickets, then they would do you no good, but if you are in that area, then it's a great prize!]

I am running a New Year’s Eve fetish event in New Jersey at the end of this year (on NYE itself). I’ll offer a ticket (that is, admission for two people, including gourmet meal and champagne)

and

I run the Wicked Winter Renaissance Faire, now entering its fourth year, every February – again, in Jersey. We’re going to three days this year, and tickets for all three days would usually be at $40; I can donate two pairs of those, as well.

I feel like George from “It’s a Wonderful Life”. Graydancer, who posted a very insightful post about the society that we live in, just twittered me (it sounds dirtier than it is) and said:

I didn’t realize you were adding prizes. Throw in an audiobook version of my novel, “Nawashi“.

Rose Fox offered a very generous and naughty prize — a very good combination for this crowd!:

I used to review DVDs for AVN, and I’m still on Vivid’s mailing list, so now I have a closet full of unopened Vivid porn DVDs. I’ve been trying to figure out how to donate them someplace and would be delighted to offer them for your cause.

There are too many to catalog, so perhaps 10 “grab bags” of ten DVD’s? I’d do my best to include a varied selection so that the winner is fairly likely to get at least a few titles that suit their tastes.

(Just a note on this: because of the laws regarding the selling of pornography, the winners would need to submit a copy of their ID to Rose in order for her to be able to send them to you.)

Beautiful Rebecca has offered:

an original piece of sensual art from the artist. It was scheduled for a gallery show next year but we would much rather have it go to your cause as it hit home. It is 3×4 metal with an object representing a uterus called, “Oikos Cella”.

Alternatively, for those who win, but don’t feel that this art is right for their home, she is an interior designer and has offered to do a consultation for a room re-do. The details are kind of extensive, so I’ll discuss it with the winner personally.

Ms. Nikki Nefarious and AlteredAperture.com) has donated prints and a rope kit:

Collette for TABU Magazine 8 x 12
Jamie in Latex 8 x 12
Girl’s Best Friend 8 x 12
Scream 8 x 10
GarGirl Bound 8 x 10
The Enforcer 8 x 10
Sarah Sealed 8 x 10
Red Hood 8 x 10

and then A Starter Rope Package (4-pack of multi-colored ropes in different lengths and hemp rope cuffs)

Lily, who calls herself Lily (the rope ho) in her comment has donated

3 x 30ft hand-dyed, processed 6mm hemp kit

Radical Vixen, who most of you know as the editor of the weekly sex blog digest, Sugasm, is a very active political advocate. She has offered two books for the raffle:

She’s on Top: Erotic Stories of Female Dominance and Male Submission
Sex and Bacon: Why I Love Things That Are Very, Very Bad For Me

Thank you, so much! I cannot tell you how moved I am by the random kindness of the community. Lochai’s the one who started the commUNITY concept, but I get it better than ever now.

I’m officially re-launching the “Catalina’s Emergency Tuition Fund Raffle” as the “The Battle Is Won, But the War is Not Over” raffle with all remaining proceeds from this point forward going to NCSF.

Here is the link to buy your virtual ticket.

Tickets are $10.00 each, you can buy as many as you’d like (if you’d like to donate $50.00, for example, I’ll enter your name 5 times). You are not obligated to buy a virtual ticket. You can also just donate to a very worthy cause at any amount.

I really will write down names and put them in a hat, and my daughter can pick the winners. At this point, she is well-aware of what is going on. We’ll choose the winners on August 17th at 10 pm. You will be notified by 10:30 pm by email. Heck, we’ll even try to find someone to film it and show it to you all :)

Mr. and Mrs. Kink’s Raffle For Our Daughter

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Buy A Raffle Ticket To Win A Limited, Edition, Museum Signed Print From Lochai

I’ve never discussed this on my blog before, but recent developments have prompted me to discuss the reason why I’m no longer a teacher. Being Catalina isn’t always a good thing. I separated early this year with my school as a peaceful way to avoid a public scandal that would ultimately affect my teenage daughter, who attended said school.

Part of my agreement I cannot legally discuss – specifically the reasons and terms of my separation – but use your imaginations. I can say that I agreed to leave quietly and peacefully under the condition that my (straight-a’s, honors courses, award-winning, athlete, without a discipline record) child be allowed to attend her last year of middle school just as if I had resigned at the end of the year. Let me spell this out for you. Faculty receive a substantial tuition discount. I pay 10% of the tuition. This roughly amounts to $1,100. After leaving, all faculty are offered one more year for their children at the faculty tuition discount as a way to avoid disrupting their children’s lives too much.

A few days ago the head of my former school called me to tell me that had rescinded his offer and that she was no longer welcome to attend. In the same phone conversation, he changed his mind and decided to honor our agreement. Well, kind of. I came in with the tuition and they refused to accept my payment.

Later I received an email that stated that on top of the faculty tuition, I am also expected to pay student fees, which are not covered under the faculty discount. Okay, so throw in another $900. I can come up with that, even if it means the car payment doesn’t get paid.

The straw that broke this camel’s back? The additional $1,000 expense account that is being demanded by the 18th of August to cover her lunch account (which was roughly $750 last year) and field trip expenses (which are roughly $250). I requested that she not be allowed to charge a lunch in the cafeteria and that she will bring her lunch, which is an option available to (other) parents, to have this fee waived. The field trip charges, I can’t really object to, that seems fair, so mental tab up to $2,200.

I’ve just been informed that the school is unwilling to waive the expense account fee for her lunch account and demands the entire amount be paid. If it is unused it will be refunded to me at the end of the year. Nice of them to at least offer that. This brings up my new grand total to $3,200 in 8 days.

I went from having her tuition paid to being a mile away.

I have never been as upset as I am right now. For a “Christian” educator to use a child as a pawn in a moral battle against me, and what I represent, is unethical – it’s beyond unethical – it’s reprehensible.

So I’ve played all of my cards, my hands are tied. He wins right now. Because I have been judged a whore, my child loses.

I refuse to allow that to happen. For the first time ever, I am asking my readers to help me. I’ve asked my readers to support the arts (artists, photographers, and other bloggers) but never asked for financial support on my blogs for myself or my family. Today that changes because my child is involved. Today I ask for your support for my daughter’s education and future.

Similar to the project I did for Lochai, I am asking for donations towards my daughter’s education fund. I spoke to Lochai this afternoon, and he has offered to donate three 5×7 museum signed prints from his recent exhibit at the World Erotic Art Museum, two of them are not only museum signed prints, but are also very limited editions.

Alley Bound and Curves are a limited edition of 10 museum signed prints. If you win, you will receive either 6/10 or 7/10. Beach Bound is Lochai’s iconic World’s Most Erotic Photograph winning piece, and is a signed museum print. (Sold normally at $75/print)

On top of Lochai’s unbelievably generous offer, several people have contacted me since posting this and asked to donate items to be raffled off as well. Now, from Ellie Lumpesse we have three books:

The Straight Girl’s Gude to Sleeping With Chicks by Jen Sincero
Aqua Erotica by Mary Anne Mohanraj
The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio by Violet Blue

Ellie is also offering a 30-minute private phone session (that can include her amazingly sexy man) if you win.

And one of Janice’s friends left a comment in my blog that she would donate custom, hand made jewelry (a necklace and earring set) to a runner up.

“It’s not a kinky prize, but pretty,” she said. Pretty indeed! Take a look: http://quem98.livejournal.com/306470.html

Thursday and D have also offered a signed 8×10 print of any one of their photographs and a copy of the book, The Mammoth Book of Illustrated Erotic Women. And Thursday has also offered one of her sexy (orgasmic) voicemails to a lucky winner. Let me tell you, that is one hot prize.

Then I got an email from a total stranger, the writer of Between My Sheets, who offered:

A brand new, still in the package, never been used Silver Bullet Vibe.

And just now I heard from my Naughty Secretary who offered:

Her services as a graphic designer and artist. She is looking into which painting(s) she is going to donate, but she has committed to two separate prizes – each being two hours of graphic design time (normally charged at $120/hr).

Edward, from Exjinn.net, the company that hosts all of our blogs and provides us without outstanding support and service, has offered:

A 50 gig hosting plan from Exjinn.net with 1-year of service.

Thank you, so much! I cannot tell you how moved I am by the random kindness of the community. Lochai’s the one who started the commUNITY concept, but I get it better than ever now.

Essin’ Em, the pansexual feminist sexpert on her way up, just donated a copy of the book, Wetter, with her story signed personally for you. As if that weren’t generous enough, she has also offered an 8×10 print!

Wow! I’m undeniably happier and at least hopeful at this point of the day than I was a few hours ago. Thank you to everybody who has donated a prize, purchased a ticket, cross posted, and just even those who left supportive comments and emails.

I’m officially launching the “Catalina’s Emergency Tuition Fund Raffle”, here is the link to buy your virtual ticket. Tickets are $10.00 each, you can buy as many as you’d like (if you’d like to donate $50.00, for example, I’ll enter your name 5 times). I really will write down names and put them in a hat, and my daughter can pick the winners (of course I’ll come up with some vanilla reason why she’s doing it). We’ll choose the winners on August 17th at 10 pm. You will be notified by 10:15 pm.

Mrs. Kink Makes Exceptions for The World Erotic Art Museum

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Beach Bound by Lochai

Beach Bound by Lochai

“BEACH BOUND”
AN EYE-OPENING VISIT TO THE EXTREME WORLD OF
AWARD-WINNING PHOTOGRAPHER LOCHAI,
SET TO OPEN MONDAY, AUGUST 4,
FOR A MONTH’S RUN AT WASHINGTON AVENUE’S
WORLD EROTIC ART MUSEUM

MIAMI BEACH—Continuing its mission to present the work of artists whose controversial subject matter frequently collide with what is generally considered to be acceptable parlor art, owner/collector Naomi Wilzig will present an exhibit by award-winning photographer, Lochai, Monday, August 4 through August 30, at the World Erotic Art Museum, 1205 Washington Ave.

An opening reception will be held Monday, August 4th  from 7 to 10 P.M.

Declaring he “shoots for the walls and not the computer screen,” Lochai’s images of bondage and fetish, have been published in The British Journal of Photography, Secret, Skin Two, Bizarre, Prometheus, Fetish Anthology and Extreme Anthology, as well as his own fine art coffee table books. In 2007, Lochai’s photo, “Beach Bound,” was judged by Erotic Signature as “The World’s Most Erotic Photograph.” Along with his runner-up images, “Alyssa Bound”, “Spider Brides” and “Curves”, “Beach Bound” appears in the collector’s edition of The World’s Greatest Erotic Art of Today, Volume 1 & 2.

Working with some of the world’s most beautiful models, Lochai, who along with Bobby Knight is a founding member and instructor of Pro Photo Tours (http://prophotours.com), finds his subject matter an opportunity to unleash the hidden truths and desires that lie not only in the persons of his models, but in the heart of his viewers.

Approximately thirty images will be on view, with Lochai planning to give a brief overview of his photographic work and bondage rigging using a female model during the opening night reception.

The World Erotic Art Museum is located at 1205 Washington Avenue.  Opens seven days from 11 A.M. to Midnight, admission is $15 per person.  Further information is available by calling (305) 532-9336 or online at www.weam.com.

Mrs. Kink Makes Exceptions for Lochai!

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I swore I wouldn’t post here anymore, but Lochai…  how can I not do everything I can do to help Lochai?!

Become A Patron Of The Arts!  Support Lochai!!

It’s no secret that I have a ridiculous crush on Lochai, and maybe a part of it is because I fell in love with his work as an artist.  On top of all that I got to actually meet him yesterday and put my hands on his…  prints (I know what you thought I was going to say!)

I know a lot of my readers are people who share my opinion about Lochai’s erotic and bondage images and also share my belief in supporting the art and the artists they love.  That’s what this post is all about.  Your opportunity to own real art while supporting the arts. It’s a win-win situation.

Lochai has a few gallery shows coming up.  He talks about them in the interview we did recently here. In response to my question about his upcoming gallery shows, in particular the exhibition at the World Erotic Art Museum in Miami Beach, FL, this is what he had to say:

Wow….  To hang in a Museum is an amazing thing.  To hang in this Museum is even a greater compliment in that the owner/curator, Naomi Wilzig, does not normally collect photography & has only just started to.  She has thousands of painting, sculptures and other various articles that have moved her over the years and only a few photographs including ones from a good friend of mine, BT Charles.  She has had many one person displays exhibited in the galleries in the 3 years WEAM has been open, but she asked me to be the first photographer.  I am also a local so this adds to the pride I feel.  Art gallery shows are wonderful but to say that you are displayed in a museum, for me that is something I am very proud of.  I will also have Beach Bound added to the permanent collection. I was also the first heterosexual male artist to have a special “Guest Gallery” show that lasted a year of 30 of my images in the Leather Archives & Museum in Chicago http://www.leatherarchives.org/ which just came down in May.

So now here we are, it’s almost time for Lochai’s big show and now it’s time for me to get involved in the only way I know how.  I’m holding my own Lochai Pledge Drive to help support Lochai’s upcoming gallery projects.  He has never done this before and he may never do this again, it’s truly exclusive (and it will give your grandkids something to bring onto The Antique’s Roadshow!) Think of it is the kinky version of the PBS Pledge Drive – you know, you donate some money and they give you a nice gift to say thank you.

Here’s the rundown – you donate to Lochai’s upcoming shows.  Donations are simple and easy – log into PayPal and use Lochai’s email address (nawalochai@kirinawa.com).  You can even use your credit card.  In return, as a thank-you gift, you receive one of Lochai’s signed prints.  The print you will receive will be chosen by Lochai and is from his award-winning gallery.

Donate $25 and receive a signed 4×6 print.  This is perfect to frame and put on your nightstand

Donate $50 and receive a signed 5×7 print.  This is a perfect size to have on your desk, no?

Donate $75 and receive two signed 5 x 7 prints – a nice little complimentary set for your boudoir.  I love the idea of having two complimentary, beautiful images, nicely framed and hung next to each other.  MDS says he thinks it would be neat if you’re a couple to frame them and then put one on each of your nightstands.  I love MDS.  He’s so clever!

If you donate $75 or more, Beach Bound will be one of the 2 5×7 prints… ;-)

Donate $100 and receive one signed 8×10 print – perfect to hang on the wall.  Actually Lochai gave me an 8×10 as a gift yesterday and it’s matted, framed, and perfectly placed on my desk, so an 8×10 is really a nice size – you can hang it or place it somewhere special.

For donations more generous than $100.00, please contact Lochai directly.   Those donors will be considered sponsors and will not only have their name associated with the show as a sponsor, but as a thank-you gift will receive a signed 5×7 Beach Bound, as well as a signed, limited edition print (of your choice).  Again, just contact Lochai directly to discuss this option.  He’s a very friendly man!

It’s Easy To Change Your Blogroll Links and RSS Feeds :)

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Come on over and see what’s going on over there.

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Way Back Wednesday: You Don’t Get To Tell Me No

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Tuesday is a good day to update your bookmarks!

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If you go there now, there is something hot posted there

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What are you still doing here?

We’re at MrandMrsKink.com now!

Come on over and play with the grown-ups.

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Mr. and Mrs. Kink + WordPress.com = Censorship = MrandMrsKink.com

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WordPress.com pisses me off daily.  I am so pissed right now that I’m considering taking another valium.  Or just shutting down the whole thing and saying fuck it.

Why?

Censorship.

WordPress.com has started censoring links just like Myspace did before they went all Nazi.  So any of my sites that are currently hosted on WordPress (this one, This Week In Kink, and The Good Things List) are fucked up.  Some links work, some links don’t.  It’s at their whim.

This is a major inconvenience as I move them to our new hosting site (Exjinn Networks rocks!) because I lose image files, blogrolls, and other things that I’ve put months worth of time and energy into only to re-do it again, ’cause I have all kinds of free fucking time.

So please direct your Mr. and Mrs. Kink bookmarks to its new home:

MrandMrsKink.com

We’ll unpack shortly.  It’s not a total disaster, but please excuse the nailgun in the middle of the floor.

We’ll also be moving This Week In Kink and The Good Things List shortly, so keep an eye out for more on this topic.

As for WordPress.com ?!  Fuck you, you Nazi motherfuckers!

Mr. Kink Uses Mrs. Kink The Way She’s Meant To Be Used

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Please note that we moved our server — we are now at http://mrandmrskink.com.  Please update your links.

I want to try to write all of this down before it fades into this evening’s adventure.  Last night after the baby went to sleep I was told to put on my collar and find all of my toys and lay them out nicely on the end table.  I grabbed my Feeldoe, several dildos, three different colored candles, my Hitachi Magic Wand with the attachments, the thigh harness dildo, the flogger, the paddle, the crop, the handcuffs that go with the Liberator sex wedges, rope, bondage tape, and my lead.  I laid out the liberator wedge and ramp on the bed and spread a sheet over it.  They are washable, but I was thinking there might be wax play involved and I didn’t want them to be ruined.  Ultimately I’d like to get one of the Fascinator Throes because it is soft and silky to the touch, but waterproof for girls like me who squirt. Click on the Liberator main page, then on Boudoir, then on Fascinator Throes.  They are really worth the investment for kinksters like me (and probably you!)

Okay, so back to the night.  I set everything out at the side of the bed and sat, waiting on my knees, until He came back into the room and took it from my hands to put around my neck.

“Lie back and spread your legs for me,” he said, as he blindfolded me.

I obediently complied, spreading my legs open as far as I could, bringing my knees to my chest.  Then I felt him place clamps on my nipples, one at a time, as delicious pain washed over my body sending a pulse to my clit.  When they were in place he played with them a bit, tugging at them slightly and tightening them just a bit.  My hips already were responding in a gyrating motion.

I felt him move away for a moment, only to feel him open my pussy with a speculum and pour olive oil into my cunt.  “This is to get you good and wet, slut, because you’re going to need it tonight.”

Yes, Master,” I replied sweetly.

He played with my open cunt for some time, examining my cervix, noting the threadlike wire that comes out of my cervix from my IUD.  He placed his fingers inside of me, swishing around the oil and placing his fingers into my mouth and all over my face.

He played for quite some time with my pussy – touching me in different areas to see my reaction to each pleasure zone.  He blew up a long balloon and fucked me with it through the speculum.  He filled my cunt with cotton balls and then drew the out one by one with forceps.  He took pictures of my wide open pussy for all to see at his whim.  And then, when he’d finished playing with my open pussy, he removed the speculum only to replace it with his fist.  He put the Hitachi on my clit with his fist inside of my cunt and I felt my entire pelvis vibrate.  “May I cum?” I asked.

Denied.  Instead.  He pulled his fist out of my pussy and removed the Hitachi from my cunt.  I felt something even bigger pushing its way into my swollen fuckhole.  “Guess what that is?” MDS asked me.

“The big dildo?” I asked.

“Wrong!” he slapped the inside of my thighs.  “This is a can of soda.  Your gaping cunt is taking in an entire can of soda.  Whore.”

I pushed against him as he pushed it into my cunt.  The stretching pain was exquisite and made me nearly cum.  “Now rub your clit, slut,” he said.

I rubbed my clit as he forced the can further and further into my pussy until I had completely taken it in.  “Now stop,” he demanded.  And like an obedient little whore, I did.

He grabbed the Hitachi again, placing it directly on the can vibrating throughout my entire cunt and into my cervix and uterus.  With his free hand, he poured hot red wax all over my clit.  Occasionally I could feel the burning wax seep down the edge of the can into my pussy, heating me up from the inside.

Now you’re going to suck your Daddy off.  Your job is to keep that can in your pussy using your muscles only.  If it comes out, even slightly, you will be punished and I mean punished hard.

He moved to my face and put his cock in my mouth, directly down my throat, fucking my throat like he’s never done before, the entire time dripping hot wax on my clit.  Each time the wax hit my clit I sucked a little more vigorously.

“Now suck Daddy’s balls.  You know how I like it – you’ve been my whore for nine years now.”

I took each one into my mouth, rolling it over my tongue and squeezing gently between my lips, sometimes taking both into my mouth to let them roll over one and other.  I licked his ass and moved back to his balls and then licked his ass some more.  I focused my attention with one hand on his cock and my other hand fingering his ass while licking and sucking his balls and within minutes he said to me, “Open your mouth, little girl.  I want to fill your mouth up with my cum.”  As I sat under him, playing with his balls and ass he squirted his cum into my mouth with perfect aim.  “Don’t swallow it, slut.  Not until I tell you you can.”  I lay there with my mouth wide open, filled with his delicious cum, tasting it with each tastebud on my tongue when he said, “Now you may swish it around in your mouth and when you are ready, you may swallow me.”

I savored his flavor for a minute, letting it drool slightly out of the corners of my mouth only to swipe it back in with my fingers and then swallowed him.  I was still cum hungry, though and so I sucked his fingers and cock dry as well.

“Now it’s your turn, little slut.  This is where you get to prove to me how much you love me.  This is your opportunity to prove your devotion to me.  You will do whatever I tell you.”

I nodded my head, still licking the cum from my lips and said, “Yes, Master.  You can do anything you want to me anytime you want to.

He pushed the can I still had in my cunt in even further.  “I want you to hurt, little slut,” he said as he bit my nipple.  “I know you need this intense experience, that just being fucked missionary style on your back would never do for you.  You need to be my slut.  You need to be my whore.  You need to confess all of your dirtiest, nastiest fantasies to me while I give you what you need.”

The dirty thoughts spouted out of me like a fountain…  I want to be fucked by men I haven’t even met, men who you chose to come to our house to fuck your wife… men who are standing around jerking off while watching you fuck me like this… men who cum on my face… men who cum all over my pussy as you’re fucking me… men who force my mouth open and fill it with their cum until it pours out of the corners of my mouth… men who will fill up a cup with cum and force me to drink it,,.. men who take their turn fucking me…men who talk about what a worthless slut I am, only good for one thing – fucking…  men who hold me down while you violate me in ways I never imagined… men who piss all over my pussy as I masturbate… men who suck each others’ cocks and then feed me the cum out of their mouths…

“Cum, little whore.  You have 10 seconds.  Cum for me like the little whore you just described.”

I imagined my montage of fantasy and by the time he got to 2, I was begging to cum.

“Cum, but don’t forget who this pussy belongs to.  Repeat it over and over -  ‘I’m Your Slut, Master.  I’m Your Slut Master.  I do whatever You tell me to do whenever You tell me to do it.  I’ll do anything you want me to do.  I’m Your sl…uuuu….t” and I couldn’t say anymore as I gasped for breath.

He pulled me to his chest and hugged me.  “Of course you are my slut.  And you always will be.”

Some Good Things from Mrs. Kink

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Even January Seraph puts on her Martha Stewart look for this week’s Good Things List.

A Good Blog To Read

Emerging On The Other Side is the blog written by an overeducated skank (former slut) who is proud of it.

A Good Toy

The Black Label Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo is the best! It seems like a just a pretty little strategically cut out piece of foam with a cover, but it’s sooooo much more! It’s great for people (like me) who have back problems and can’t tolerate a traditional hands and knees position for longer than three minutes. I never ever feel pain (except for the good kind!) when we get out our Liberator set.

A Good Great Photographer

Lochai is not only a good photographer, but he is a great artist! He is the photographer responsible for the image at the top of this post! I recently did an interview with Lochai on Catalina Loves. This bit is From his bio on his website Kirinawa.com:

Lochai is an award winning photographer who’s work appears on gallery walls as well in fine art publications & coffee table books. He “shoots for the walls & not the computer screen”. Presently he has his work on display at the Leather Archive & Museum in Chicago, for sale in brick & mortar galleries from Key West Florida to Cyber fine art galleries based out of London as well on many private collectors walls. His images, rope art & interviews have been published in The British Journal of Photography, Secret, Skin Two, Bizarre, Prometheus, Cherry, A Magazine, Fetish Anthology, Extreme Anthology, New Times and in his own fine art books. His work can also be found on numerous websites from around the world. He is one of the founding directors of PAG, the Photo Artisans Guild, in West Palm Beach Florida. He as also the co-founder & co-curator of the Traveling Erotic Art Show which spent 2 years touring the US.

He feels that the best stories to tell come from the heart and everyone has something hidden that is bursting to come out. “I feel I can touch something inside the heart & head of each person who views my work. For me, I see the real person when I create my images. The real person comes out thru their alter ego.” Starting in Mid June he will be teaching along side David Lawrence & Bobby Knight 3 day intensive workshops on the art of fine art fetish photography. For more information go to http://prophototours.com/

Being an educator & student of bdsm and fetish, Lochai knows how to bring out the look of hidden desires in his models & shows “real” emotions to his audience. He is considered an advanced rope artist who tours the country teaching rope bondage to kinksters from all walks of life & both rigs his own models for his photography as well as for some of the top photographers in the world. “The Art of The Art” is how he looks at his bondage images & he loves to share his knowledge.

On the Bondage side… Lochai has been a student of Japanese inspired rope bondage since a very early age. He has been educating the rope bondage minded in South Florida for the past 8 years as well as across the country for the past 12. He is one of the founding members of the Traveling Rope Troupe comprised of riggers and bottoms who perform theater style aspects of their bondage art as a lead into a series of hands on classes. He can be found on occasion binding beauties and creating living art at local fetish events as well as major exhibitions. “I use the body as a canvas & rope as the medium in creating my art”

A Good Band

I’m partial to this band because it’s my very good friend’s band. Your Dirty Habit is club/dance music and it never leaves my playlist. On their site at Myspace.com/YourDirtyHabit, you can grab the Live Summer 2007 Live Mix – DO IT! I love it!

A Good Pay Site

Backdoor Bondage is the site that belongs to Sgt. Major. His scenes are some of the hottest I’ve seen, ever. Maybe it’s because I’m such a fan of Claire Adams and I’ve seen two scenes with her it them – one where she was being punched in the ass and another where she’s completely suspended upside down being erotically choked. Either way, yum yum.

A Good Webmaster Resource

Kinky Dollars is Kink.com’s affiliate program. We have had great success monetizing our blogs with Kink.com. Click on the little link and you can sign up for your own account.

A Good Non-Sex Science Tattoo Blog

My friend, Zetar, passed this blog along to me and I just have to share it with everyone else. I normally don’t like tattoos, but these tattoos are right up my alley. Nerds meet Ink – Ink meet Nerds. It’s Carl Zimmer’s Science Tattoo Emporium. Frequently when graduate students finish their doctorate (or even Masters) they get a commemorative tattoo. No, not an “I love Betty” tattoo, but cooler. Take a lookee.

A Good Corsetry Site

By now everybody knows that I love corsets. love Love LOVE them! My dream is to have a corset custom made by Isabella Corsetry. Here is some information from her about page:

Isabella Corsetry makes corsets for women, men, and even children (no waist reduction of course), as well as custom bridal gowns, vintage inspired dresses, costumes, and undergarments.

Each corset made by Isabella Costumiere is individually patterned to each customers own measurements . Since no two bodies are exactly the same this means you will get a corset that fits YOUR body. I use a rather long list of measurements and double check each pattern to insure the perfect fit. For long distance customers I can construct a muslin mock up of your corset and mail it to you to try on in the comfort of your own home to make certain your corset is just right. These are inlcuded with every overbust corset.

Well, there you have it – a few new Good Things for you to check out. I’m getting such a backlist that I’m considering doing The Good Things List twice a week instead of just on Saturdays. What do you think?

Our Kinky Gift To You – This Week In Kink

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I Slapped Her Face With My Cock And Coated Her Tits With Hot Wax

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You may be aware that Catalina has had a rough go of it lately. Her back and shoulder have been severely messed up, but lots of drugs, and a new TENS unit are taking care of that. The other night, I laid her down on the bed, and was going to beat her ass red, but instead, her SLUT collar proudly shining, she wanted wax. Now the neat thing about this whole time is that she’s in a pain slut mode, and the meds make her very stout and resilient. This means I can flog her until my arm is sore, spank her until my hand is red, and cane her until her dripping pussy is too much to resist.

But anyone who knows me, knows that I love nipples. I pulled them and bit them and BIT them and BIT them, and she was riding the pain in bliss. Totally my slut. My property. My whore. She sucked my cock a little, but it hurt her neck, so as she sucked my balls, I reached for the candle.

I must mention that she was wearing a blindfold, and her hands were bound together, albeit with a length of rope between them. The flickering flame was the only light in the room. She was on her back, mouth open slightly in what I call her Sex Mouth. That means that she is a cum hungry cock slut, or a cock hungry cum slut (in that moment). I aimed the first drop at her left nipple, and it struck as she moaned. Ordinarily, we have to ease into wax play, or else it’s too much too soon, like getting into a too hot bath. This time, with the drugs, she moaned like I just slid my fingers inside her. “The pain is sooooo goooood.” she moaned.

I let the wax rain down carelessly. With the drugs dulling her senses, she truly was my slut to hurt. The wax landed square on her perfect pink clit, and she raised her hips to fuck it. I slapped her face and made her tell me filthy things, things that remain between us. She rubbed my cock against her smooth cheek and slapped it, and I took the hint and slapped her face with my cock. I spread her open and she begged for more pain. She was completely a painslut, more than I’ve ever known her to be. She wanted my cum all over her face, mouth, tits, cunt, everywhere. She wanted a group of men watching me fuck her like the slut she was, and jerk off all over her. She was, in that moment, a true and perfect slut. Anyone could have fucked her, and she would have given over to them completely. Not in her heart, or even in a D/s way, but in a fuck way. You know what I mean. I told her that, as I took the Magic Wand and pushed it hard against her clit.

I took my cock away from her face long enough to slap the wax off her tits. She wanted more. I grabbed her nipples with my fingernails dug in, and pulled. I bit her flesh. I called her filthy names, she was riding the edge and it was so good, but exhausting.

I took our bottle of lube, spread her open, and just poured it in. Then, before she could even process what was happening, I shoved my whole fist into her tiny, pink, pussy. All the way to cervix. All the way… deep. Women, you know exactly what I did. And it was flawless. She cried out, “What is that?” (blindfolded remember) and when I said, “That’s my fist, you slut.” she started shuddering. The pain, the domination, the drugs, the sheer depravity… my other hand resumed the clitoral overload with the Hitachi, and she started to shake and whimper, and tell me that she was a slut, a whore, a analslut, a cockslut, (more and more desperate) and so on. I opened and closed my fist, as much as I could, and the pain was her lover. She relented at last, and the orgasm made her rigid and clenched, under she shattered with a shudder, and I was holding her tiny, sobbing body in my arms. She cried with release, and catharsis. I kissed her, and loved her, and treasured her back to the waking world.

“Thank you.” she sighed breathlessly. She’s my girl. Now and forever. I know what she needs, and how far she can go, and she’s an adventurer, she always wants what’s next. Bring it.

It was great sex.

[Photographer/Model? This was emailed to me]

Written by MarkyDSade

June 26, 2008 at 3:48 pm

Mr. and Mrs. Kink’s 137th Sugasm (and counting!)

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The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #138? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
I can only be what I am.
“It’s strangely refreshing, to really submit and give up that control, and not have to make decisions.”

Over the Edge
“He tells me to hold still, in that soft, controlling voice of his.”

A Story Told Out of Order and Out of Character – Part 4
“You thought you could just come to my room and tease me?”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
A former slut examined

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
2 Naked filthy bitches spanked, caned and fucked!
Beautiful Smile
Bedroom Radio #17: Pure Pleasure and i-Lube plus Listener Feedback
Free Euro Blonde Adult Chat Video
Gotta turn the naughty on -HNT
Half-Nekkid Fun With Mirrors
Happy HNT!
Mz. Berlin Has Never Looked Hotter Than She Does In This Collar
Mz Berlin, Satine Phoenix, and Hot Wax
Natasha – I want your sex
The Outfit Kris Picked
(Pic) fun at glory hole
Ron Jeremy sticks dirty fingers in her pussy

Sex Advice
Fundamentals of Edging for Newly Chronic Masturbators

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
My favorite shower: A Review
Pirate porn review
Puffy Leather Hood
Review: Cascade Wand
TES Fest 2008 – Celebrating the Red, White (Black) & Blue in Style!

Sex Work
Captain’s Log: Moondancing With Adam Duritz And The Dirtiest Girl In Porn (Yikes!)
Funny email
Happiness Through Porn
Princess Pussy Whipped!!

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Are You a Pickup Artist?
The cable guy, the guest and Me
Doing it DOGGY STYLLEEE……arf arf
From Tomboys To Fab Femme Girls-Talkes From Toronto, Part 1
How to Enjoy the Single (And Non-Dating) Life
I Think I Have A Crush on Lochai
The Other Woman’s Other Men
To be a woman

Sex Humor
It DOES all sound the same!
“My first time” in a men’s world

Erotic Writing and Experiences
The ___ ___ war
Anal Sex from a Female Perspective
Content
Let’s talk semantics
More Mayo!
Once Upon a Time. Confession #70
Professor of Sexual Education
Public sex
Sex, The Heart, and, The Body, Electric
Totally Tuesday

Sex & Politics
Are dominants really just chauvinistic, anti-feminists?
Believing the Victim
A Straight Woman Is Just a Sober Bisexual

BDSM & Fetish
Bath time spanking
Captive in the jungle
Catalina Loves Topping A Couple With Her Master
The Evolution of My Slut – An Update And A Chat With r
Fetish Friday – Watersports
i am my Master’s slut
Jude
The Lilith Obsession, Part the Second
A minor adjustment and an end to the torment (for now)
The Perfect Cure for Grumpyness
A sexual dream
Sgt. Major makes Claire Adams Submit and Cum on Backdoor Bondage
Twenty Questions #6: Dominate or Be Dominated?
Wild Weekend: Day 3

She’s Out On Injured Reserve

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My little girl is hurt. She has had a horrible spasm in her trapezius, and aside from downing a prodigious amount of flexeril and valium, Catalina hasn’t been very slutty. Too much pain. This has been going on for weeks now, steadily escalating in intensity, and infirmity. She’s sleeping now, for the first time in days. That’s how all the work gets done on the blogs. She just stays up and writes, with a heating pad on her shoulder, and bong in hand. That’s why there hasn’t been much activity here lately. When she’s better, I will beat her into the submissive cumslut we all love. Until then, she’s my little girl who needs Daddy to tend her. In the meantime, here’s my cock. (you’re welcome) :-)

Written by MarkyDSade

June 21, 2008 at 5:44 pm

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Mr. and Mrs. Kink Present This Week In Kink

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[The Official Return of The Red Hair ::wild applause:: Photo by Altered Aperture.]

Well, it’s official. Every Friday I’m going to do This Week In Kink for you. I’m not only going to include our blogs, but the blogs of my friends, as well. I’m also going to just pick the top TWO posts instead of THREE because the list is getting a little long. As usual, please let me know what you think.

Catalina Loves:

Catalina Says:

The Momme Domme – From Professional Mom(me) To Professional Domme

Corset and Collar:

Breathplay Fetish Blog:

Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com):

Marky D. Sade’s Sexy BDSM Blog:

Mz. Berlin’s Blog:

Atlanta Bondage:

Thursday’s Child Has Far To Go:

Kinkerbelle:

Curvaceous Dee:

So there you have it. This Week In Kink with a few new friends on the list. We’ll see how big this list grows!

Mr. Kink + Mrs. Kink = TLA

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Catalina Loves Marky

[photography by Altered Aperture]

“How much do you love me, John?” she asked. He answered, “How much do I love you? Count the stars in the sky. Measure the waters of the oceans with a teaspoon. Number the grains of sand on the seashore. Impossible, You Say?” – Marky On The Beach

I am so proud of you. You are breathtaking. You are a bombshell. You are a MILF. You are a sex goddess. You are Catalina. You are everything, because you’re amazing in your depth and complexity.

Mr. and Mrs. Kink’s Reading List (Sugasm #136)

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[Anybody know who the photographer/model is?]

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #137? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
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“Frozen, I wait for your next move.”

Balanced on the tip of my tongue
“Pushing her into the bedroom, I stripped her bare swiftly, laid her out on the bed.”

Impertinent Question: Do You Enjoy Spanking?
“That’s what we call Wednesday night!”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
The Source of All Waters

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

BDSM & Fetish
He loves me
Intimacy and BDSM
The Lilith Obsession, Part the First
Mr. and Mrs. Kink’s Unbelievably Good Sex Last Night
Online Auction Snafu – F/m Spanking Pics
Other World Kingdom visit – Part 7
r’s naughty thoughts on submission, fetishes, and enemas
Raw
ThunderFuck
Vacation story
Weekends. part 1
Why I’ve Never Gone To A Pro-Domme..Why I Might Someday

Sex & Politics
Condoms for Everybody! No?
To Choke a Chicken

Erotic Writing and Experiences
3 days, 3 guys (Part 1)
Catalina loves Oral Sex With Mr. F
A Day at the Fair
Hot Hotel Bang: Key West
In Which Penny Receives Kisses That Exceed Expectations
My Usual Friday
Proudly fucked at the pride

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
And the Award for Most Beautiful Breasts in the World Goes To…
Fetish Model Charlotte Brooke In Serious Encasement, Full Enclosure, Gas Mask Scene
January Seraph in Corset and Collar
Half-Nekkid in a New Corset
I Love Amsterdam girls alone on video
Kim Sharma Looking Sexy in Chemise and Tiny Shorts
Live hidden Carmen gets wet in Zoo Promo
Making Porn With Nikki On The Lord’s Day
Mz. Berlin In The Sun With The Family
One Tuff Babe -HNT
Sex And The Kitty
Toy Time

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Asian Fetish Model Jandi Lin, Sarah Jane Ceylon,and Mistress Claire Adams Get Fucked Up On Device Bondage
Book Review: Jenny Block’s Open
German Porn
I Can’t Stand “Sex And The City”
PullJoy© Book Review: Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel
Review of Astro Vibe
Sex News Roundup

Sex Work
Princess Back Online!!

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Desire Its Cascading Flaming Passion to a trickling flicker
Finishing with a Bang
Letting Go
Shopping basket
Why do you Love “The City” So Much(with a twist to the story)??

Sex Advice
The sofa-sexual masturbator: couch copulation and furniture fucking examined.

30 Nights Of Spankings

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Bondage Tape and Toes

With our daughter safely in Oregon, we planned to begin our 30 nights of spankings tonight. However, there is a kink in our kinky plan! Our air conditioning went kaput over the weekend and won’t be repaired until the morning. It is very hot in Charlotte. I’m not sure how people live in the South without A/C, but I’ve heard rumor that it happens. Anyway, the house is unbelievably hot – like sitting doing nothing and still sweating hot. Yuck. We laid in bed too sticky to even want to touch. Now, I know that some people are really turned on by sweat. I am not one of those people. Neither is Mr. Kink. So it’s 1 am. It’s still too hot for me to sleep, but Mr. Kink can sleep through just about anything and he’s already snoozing next to me in bed.

So 30 nights of spankings has become 29 nights of spankings (hopefully!) as we begin tomorrow night. I think I might wake Mr. Kink up to masturbate with me, though. I have strict orders to wake him rather than cum alone. I can’t imagine not having an orgasm today (especially after writing about our adventures in dominating another couple on Catalina Loves tonight!)

Written by Catalina

June 16, 2008 at 1:13 am

i am my Master’s slut

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Being Marky D. Sade’s wife is the best. Not only is He my Husband and Best Friend, but also my Master. Our relationship has evolved from Daddy/Little Girl to Master/slut over time.

Last night I was instructed to find my (slut) collar, my dildo, and my Hitachi and have them on the bed waiting when He came upstairs. He knows that my Achilles’ heel is sucking His cock. The first taste of cum sends me soaring. He slid my collar around my neck as He stuffed His cock into my mouth. His fingers explored my body, His body, as I sucked His cock. He grabbed my nipples and pulled them, harder and fiercer than ever before. However, being more of a painslut than ever, and I only got wetter and wetter.

He reached down between my legs, spread me wide open, and examined me, stretching my pussy open to look at me closely, hurting me so good. He savagely finger fucked me, leaving me hurting for more, as He stuffed His cock down my throat, controlling my breathing with His cock. I gasped for air as He pulled His cock out of my throat only to stuff it into my pussy.

As He grabbed my throat with His hand He said to me, “Your ass is Mine tonight, little slut. You have been keeping it from Me, and I have been patient, but I am done waiting. Tonight I am going to remind you that you are not only a cockslut and a cumslut, but that you are also an assfuckslut.” I began to fade and He loosened his grip, leaving me panting and wanting more. “Now beg, little whore. Beg for My cock in your ass.” I did. I begged him. I begged to be fucked in the ass, to be fucked hard, to be hurt, to be used, to be treated like the assfuckslut that He knows that i am.

He turned His back on me for a moment to grab the wedges from the closet and threw them on the bed.

“Assume the position.”

I laid across it on my tummy with my ass and pussy open at the end of the bed for Him to do with as He pleased. He grabbed my dildo and plunged it into my dripping wet cunt. He taunted me for a while and then pulled it out and stuffed it into my ass with one thrust. “Even your ass is wet. You’re such a slut that you can take a cock without even being lubed. What does that say about you?”

He pulled it out and stuck his fingers inside of me, stretching me open further. “Your ass is gaping, little slut,” He said, as he pulled out His fingers and slid His cock in their place. “See? You denied Me this? You will regret that. You will be fucked in the ass every time I choose to. You have no say in that. Do you understand that? You have no say in the matter.” I answered, obediently, “Yes, Master. As You wish. My body is Yours, for Your pleasure at Your discretion, of course.”

As He fucked my ass, He began to count backwards from 20. I have been trained by Him to cum on command, but He is generous enough to give me 20 seconds this time. He reached around me to place the Hitachi on my clit and the problem wasn’t whether or not I could cum in 20 seconds, but whether or not I could wait the 20 seconds until allowed to. 15… 10…. 5… “Cum, little slut.” And I did, leaving me completely shattered only to be put back together by Him.

I laid there, in His arms, crying. “Let it all out, all that stress, all that tension, all that fear, all that anxiety. Just let it go and let Me wash over you,” He said to me as I sobbed. Catharsis. It’s uncontrollable, the tears. It’s nothing more than the physical manifestation of a very spiritual release, yet it bothers me. He comforts me, snuggles me, lets me come down a little and then says to me, “Now I’m going to go jump in the shower, and when I come back, I want you in a state of near orgasmic arousal. Do not cum, little slut. When I come back, you will suck Me off. I will cum all over your pretty little face and mouth. You will drink Me in like love nectar.”

Hours later, after serving Him as He had instructed, I curled up next to Him, snuggled into my spot on His chest, and fell safely into dreamland. I woke up this morning before He did and wrapped my lips, again, around His cock, feeling Him swell and grow in my mouth before His eyes opened. He awakened. “Good morning, little slut. What a good little slut you are already today. I am proud of you. There may be hope for you yet.”

Written by Catalina

June 14, 2008 at 11:14 pm